Ngokubanzi, izipho zinikwa kwiNyaka eNtsha yamaTshayina, kwimitshato, ekuzalweni komntwana, nakwimihla yokuzalwa yakutshanje.

Kuqhelekile ukuzisa isipho xa umenyiwe ekhayeni lomntu. Ngokwesiqhelo iintyatyambo ezintsha okanye iziqhamo zezona zilungileyo kuwe (inombolo yesibhozo ithathwa njengethamsanqa, ngoko ke iiorenji ezisibhozo licebo elihle) okanye, ewe, nantoni na evela ekhaya. Okukhona isipho sibiza kakhulu, kokukhona sihloniphekile ngakumbi, kodwa ungagqithisi okanye uya kubahlazisa abaninimzi bakho, abanokuziva befuna ukuzibhatala ukuze babuyisele ububele bakho. Ungamangaliswa kukuba, ukuba isipho sakho sisongiwe, sibekwe kwindawo ebonakalayo ubusuku bonke kwaye sishushu singasongwanga de kube emva kokuba uhambe (abaninimzi bakho banokubonakala benoburhalarhume kwaye bengenambulelo ukuba ibhokisi yesipho ivulwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye phambi kwakho. Kwakhona kuyimbeko ukubuyisa into ethile xa usiya eluhambeni—isipho nje esincinci silungile. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ulungile xa unika isipho sakho: unganiki unobhala eofisini into entle kunomphathi wekholeji, kwaye unganiki iqela elinye labagxeki kunye nelinye—baya kufumanisa, ungabheja kuso. Rhoqo, kungcono Nika into enokwabelwana ngayo, njengokutya.